Why a Co-Active Relationship works

In the last post, we explored about the equal partnership between the Co-active coach and a typical client with big dreams. But, even assuming it is a equal relationship, why would anybody want to share their biggest dreams and fears with their coach? Why would we risk being vulnerable?

We live in a world where we feel judged every single minute, in everything we do. That begins with our very own self critic, who often takes great pleasure at pointing out all the things that we screwed up. When we muster up the courage to divulge our hopes and fears  with our loved ones and close friends, there are times where we feel supported but there are also times where we get to receive advice that comes from the space of judgement. Eventually, we get to a space where we hold onto our dreams within ourselves and sometimes even convince ourselves that it is not worth aspiring towards.

The strength of the Co-Active relationship is the safe space of absolute non judgement. In this space, vulnerability and authentic expression of dreams and desires are celebrated. In this space, the client gets to connect deeply and powerfully with themselves and get clarity on why they pursue their dreams and what steps they will take to achieve it. 

In the safe space of absolute non judgement and vulnerability. as a client, you get to see and feel the best of who you are, at your core. When you feel that. you automatically step up your game and run towards achieving your dreams. As a client, I got to experience that and that is why I believe the Co-Active relationship works. 

If you are looking for a safe space to connect and talk about your dreams, I am available for a quick 30 minute sample session. Please message me, if interested.